Here's a rare look at the secret lives of teen boys--often characterized by loneliness and peer fear, in which measuring up means conforming to a tough-guy code, never showing weakness or expressing true feelings. Many boys feel constant pressure to prove themselves in the classroom, on playing fields, and among their friends. Deep inside they hunger for family support and connection--and long to be accepted by their peers. This must-read book is packed with real-life stories and emails from teen boys that will give you new insights into the mind and heart of your son.